Friends after spinal cord injury
When I became a paraplegic the first thing I told my loved ones and friends was “I’m still me”. At the time it was all I wanted anyone to know about my accident, I didn’t want people to view me differently. My family was learning about my disability at the same rate as me, so there was not much confusion of how they should help or treat me. When I came home from my rehab hospital my friends greeted me with open arms and things were great, but as much as I wanted to pretend they were normal they weren’t. My friends didn’t understand how to help or what to do, but why would they? they wanted to pretend things were normal just as much as I did. As I had to do in many situations after the accident I took charge and lead the way. I told my friends how to help and what I needed. I found myself reflecting on the words that had left my mouth when the accident first occurred “I’m still me”. I knew now that I wasn’t and I wanted to be treated diffe...